Welcome back to my research notes! The main character in Project “Sparkle Cup” is a geisha. Her job is to charm powerful men and create an atmosphere of grace and peace. Historically, one of the geishas’ iconic practices for accomplishing this was to host Japanese tea ceremonies. So I had to do a little reading on it.

Not gonna lie, I got a little humbled by the tea this week.

First of all, I’ve been saying it wrong. It’s actually called Chado or Chanoyu and the true tea masters would not refer to it as a ceremony. That’s far too stuffy and formal. It’s viewed more as a meditative dance where souls can meet with each other. (I think we need more of that in the world.)

Second of all, I had NOOOOO idea how choreographed Chado was. Every movement is precise and efficient. Still there is a mindfulness that keeps it human. (Very mindful. Very demure. iykyk)

Third of all, I underestimated the cultural and philosophical significance of Chado. Japanese people treasure this centuries old tradition and many still study it. Chado is part of what it means to be Japanese.

Fourth of all, I didn’t realize how much it would move me. Under the intricate movements and artful food, is a wisdom that speaks to our humanity no matter what soil our ancestors tread upon. I’d like to share a couple of the values and sayings that I learned in my reading.

The Way of Tea

  • Respect: Treating every person and object and moment and gesture with care and consideration
  • Harmony: Achieving balance between people and nature/reality
  • Purity: Cleansing the heart and mind to create space for attention
  • Tranquility: The peace that results from the achievement of respect harmony and purity.

The Takeaway

In reading about Chado, I am reminded to live intentionally and be present. I’d like to continue to grow in Respect. I want to notice the people and things around me and treat them each as valuable. I like how (briefly) studying Chado has shown me that respect begins with giving something your attention. Not to use it or change it or fit it into your narrative, but first to simple behold with the intention to understand. I think I’ll be a kinder and wiser person as I grow in Respect.

What do you want to grow in? Share your takeaway in the comments!

Respectfully,

Kasumi Sonoda

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